An Entertainer

The other day CW and I were discussing the fact that I regularly say that I’m bored.  He asked me about a relationship I had where me and the guy didn’t argue a lot.  He was trying to say that it was mostly b/c me and that guy had sex regularly, saying that b/c he and I are celibate we need to work harder to entertain ourselves.  I said that wasn’t true b/c I could only think of one relationship where the guy didn’t get on my nerves on a regular basis and that was with GJ.  He asked me why that was, what did G do that I liked.  By the time I finished listing things he said that G kept me entertained.  He may not have been purposely trying to do that, but his personality was just naturally entertaining to me.

I’m realizing that that is true.  He was so funny all the time.  In other relationships I’m always the one who is funny and constantly making the other person laugh.  I don’t do it on purpose though.  My mother is always telling me that I’m funny, and from my point of view I’m just talking, but CW says the same thing.  I was never bored with G b/c he was a lot of fun.  We could spend all day in the house and I wouldn’t be bored once.  We watched a lot of the same TV shows, played games, our conversations were fun, I just enjoyed so much about him.  “Well why aren’t you with him anymore?” you’re probably wondering.  Well the relationship ended b/c he cheated on me.  He was man enough to admit it on his own, but it still happened and I wasn’t going to put up with that.  Honestly, if that hadn’t happened though I would have married him. 

Anyway, its official.  I’m adding that to my list.  I need a man who is naturally entertaining.  I never knew that about myself, but it makes total sense.